Have you ever stopped to listen to the way you talk to yourself?
One day, I was dressed and ready to drive to the studio where I was the host of a TV morning show. Before driving to work I had to take the trash out to the curb for collection. At end of my driveway, I tripped and fell. I hit the pavement so hard that my hands and knees started to bleed.
I went back into the house and… Read More
Are you letting what other people do determine your attitude? Are you letting things upset you that don’t have to upset you?
The other morning, I was approaching a red light with my right-turn indicator blinking. Suddenly, the man in the car behind me starts honking his horn angrily. I look in my rear-view mirror and I see this guy, furiously waving his arm, motioning for me to make the turn. I hadn’t even had the time to stop at the… Read More
Did you know your attitude is a choice?
John C. Maxwell said, “Your attitude is a choice. If you desire to make your day a masterpiece, then you need to have a great attitude. If it’s not good now, you need to change it. Make the decision.”
A decision is an action. The word “decide” comes from the Latin root decidere—meaning “to cut off from.” That means when you make a decision, you’re cutting off any other alternatives.
For instance, when… Read More
Have you ever noticed the happiest and most successful people in life tend to have great attitudes?
In his book, Make Today Count, John C. Maxwell tells a story about a 92-year-old woman who was moving into a nursing home:
“Since she was legally blind and her husband of 70 years had passed away, the move was her only option. She waited in the lobby of the facility for a long time before finally being told that her room… Read More
In his book For One More Day, Mitch Albom writes, “I met a man once who did a lot of mountain climbing. I asked him which was harder, ascending or descending? He said without a doubt descending, because ascending you were so focused on reaching the top, you avoided mistakes. “The backside of a mountain is a fight against human nature,” he said. “You have to care as much about yourself on the way down as you did on the… Read More
No matter how much you’ve worried in the past or are worrying right now, you can let go of worry. I know you can because I did!
I was once a chronic worrier. I worried about my weight and my appearance. I worried about making mistakes. I worried about my job, about money, and about being alone. I worried about being loveable, being likeable, and being good enough. You name it and I worried about it.
The strange thing is, I… Read More
Mary Hemingway said, “Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry. Worry never fixes anything.”
Isn’t that good advice? If something is wrong, fix it if you can. In other words, when you’re feeling worried, act to control the controllable.
It sounds easy, but have you ever noticed how worry, doubt, and fear often stop people from… Read More
Laughter is good for the soul! It causes your body to release endorphins – the body’s natural pain killer – and to reduce the stress hormone, cortisol.
Who in your life makes you laugh the most?
For me, I’d have to say it’s my kids and my sister Dede. Here’s a recent interaction I had with my daughter, Brianna, that had me laughing so hard I was crying.
“Brianna,” I say during a FaceTime call. “The agent Auntie Jan knows just… Read More
Did you know not all worry is bad?
That’s right!
Some worry can actually be good for you. Sometimes it’s saying, “Hey, pay attention! There are some things you need to do to protect your health, your wealth, yourself, your family, your business.”
When you feel worry brewing, instead of sitting there stewing, get up and start doing!
When you’re feeling worried, ask yourself, “Is this worry prompting me to take action?” If it is, act.
Sounds… Read More
*Trigger Warning: Grief, Loss
This may seem like an unusual Christmas message. Yet, this is a story of hope. It’s a story of help in the midst of a storm. It’s a story to ease loneliness during a time that can be lonely for so many.
It was the first snowfall of the winter and the day after I returned from a holiday in Disney World with my husband and two young daughters. It is a day I will never forget!… Read More
